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Readings for Tuesday 8/11/2020
you always shine on our path
as a sign of salvation and of hope.
We entrust ourselves to you, Health of the Sick,
who at the cross took part in Jesus’ pain,
keeping your faith firm.
You, Help of Christians and Mother of Perpetual Help,
know what we need,
and we are sure you will provide
so that, as in Cana of Galilee,
we may return to joy and to feasting
after this time of trial.
Help us, Mother of Divine Love,
to conform to the will of the Father
and to do as we are told by Jesus,
who has taken upon himself our sufferings
and carried our sorrows
to lead us, through the cross,
to the joy of the resurrection. Amen.
Under your protection, we seek refuge,
Holy Mother of God.
Do not disdain the entreaties of we who are in trial,
but deliver us from every danger,
O glorious and blessed Virgin.
Courage to Reconcile
“If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have won over your brother. If he does not listen, take one or two others along with you, so that every fact may be established on the testimony of two or three witnesses. If he refuses to listen to them, tell the Church. If he refuses to listen even to the Church, then treat him as you would a Gentile or a tax collector.” Matthew 18:15-17
Presented here is a clear method of problem solving given to us by Jesus. First of all, the fact that Jesus offers a basic method of problem solving reveals that life will present us with problems to be solved. This should not surprise us or shock us. It’s just life.
Too often, when someone sins against us or they live in a publically sinful way, we enter into judgment and condemnation. As a result, we can easily write them off. If this is done, it’s a sign of a lack of mercy and humility on our part. Mercy and humility will lead us to desire forgiveness and reconciliation. Mercy and humility will help us to see others’ sins as opportunities for greater love rather than as reasons to condemn.
How do you approach people who have sinned, especially when the sin is against you? Jesus makes it clear that if you are sinned against you should go to great lengths to win the sinner back. You should spend much energy in love of them and do everything possible to reconcile and to bring them back to the truth.
You must start with a one-on-one conversation. From there, bring other trusted people into the conversation. The ultimate goal is the truth and to do all you can to let the truth restore your relationship. Only after you have tried everything should you then wipe the dust from your feet and treat them as a sinner if they are not won over to the truth. But even this is an act of love in that it is a way of helping them see the consequences of their sin.
Reflect, today, upon who it is that you may need to reconcile with. Perhaps you have not yet even had that initial personal conversation required as a first step. Perhaps you’re afraid to initiate it or perhaps you’ve already written them off. Pray for grace, mercy, love and humility so that you can reach out to those who hurt you in the way Jesus wants.
Lord, help me to let go of any pride I have that keeps me from being merciful and seeking reconciliation. Help me to reconcile when the sin against me is small or even great. May the compassion of Your heart fill mine so that peace can be restored. Jesus, I trust in You.
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